3 Ways to Grab a Woman’s Attention

January 31, 2013     No comments

From Nefertiti to the girl who lives next door, women have continued to be a thing of great mystery for men. Men are forever confused about women and the pile of questions keeps going up. Why don’t women like me? What am I doing wrong? What is the right way? These are some questions that haunt men when they fall for the woman of their dreams who’s not showing much interest in him.

Wooing a woman is as difficult as it is made out to be and there are no fixed rules. However, a general understanding of the nature of women would help you a great deal. The following points will make life easier for you –

  1. Warm Yourself Up – Confidence can be an issue when you are head over heels for someone. The main road block to most people’s confidence is the fact that there are many people better than you out there. The city is teeming with people who are gorgeous, talented, wonderful, and even all of these together. So, what sets you apart from them? It’s not a ground breaking secret, it’s something very simple. The answer is – little things that make you unique and special.

Maybe you can play three music instruments or you have visited four countries or you can speak five languages. It could be something as sweet as you two liking the same kind of music. So, believe in yourself and loosen up.

  1. Hold A Confident Posture – Your body language speaks volumes about your state of mind and your thoughts much more than words. This is why you should never underestimate the importance of a good posture. Your spine should be straight and your shoulders should be relaxed. This doesn’t mean that you should stand with an uncomfortable army stance. Be at ease, but be tall and confident.

Slouched shoulders are a sign of lack of confidence and the girl would not offer you more than a glance. Be a picture of attitude and assurance, like you know what you’re doing. There should be a purpose to your actions. You’ll notice that changing your body language actually does wonders to the way you feel as well.

  1. Give her The ‘Look’ – Don’t misunderstand this as permission to stare at her till she sets the cops on you. Give her subtle glances to let her know that you want her. Meet her gaze and hold it as it would make you look confident and would give her the hint that you like her.

Now, looking someone right in the eye is no small feat and it can be particularly daunting when the person gives you jelly legs. Hence, practice daily for the confidence you lack. Look at yourself in the mirror and talk to yourself, list your good qualities. This might seem absurd but it would work its magic eventually and you would agree that it’s a fine exercise.

Most importantly, be charming and respectful. A nice personality attracts everyone and if you are a nice person, your job would be a lot easier.

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Online Christian Dating Advice – Should Christians Date Online?

November 23, 2012     No comments

Many people have asked me whether or not online Christian dating is Godly, ethical, pleasing to God, holy etc. It’s a question that comes up time and time again and is one that is well worth asking.

As a Christian you are taught to live in the world but to not be of the world. What does this mean in the context of online dating?

Well, I can only put it like this: you are living on earth and have to use its resources in order to live, and with modern technology, such as it is, we pretty much all have cell phones and computers, email and access to the internet 24/7.

Is Christian online dating evil?

No, not at all, God brings about good in every situation and can use our man made tools to glorify Himself.

But can I use an online dating site and not be dishonoring God?

That is up to you – there are many, many dating sites out there, even ones that promote extra marital affairs. Of course these sites are not Godly. However, there are Christian dating sites that promote Godly relationships that form part of our culture and the way people meet each other these days.

Gone are the days of matchmaking you best friend with your brother. Now you date digitally, which is a reality of life.

You can observe the Godly principles in online dating just as you can with traditional dating methods.

So, my advice is to find a great Christian online dating site and be prayerful about finding the right person to meet.

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Relationship Advice for Women

November 19, 2012     No comments

They say, men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Does it look like any of us care, when it comes to relationship advice for women? Irrespective or our origins, the fact remains, that we women need an advice on how to deal with a man, especially when it comes to a romantic relationship. In my opinion, women have higher emotional intelligence than men, but despite that, sometimes they can be at their wits end because of a man’s confusing behavior. So, after a great deal of writings on relationships, here’s an exclusive piece of work just for women. The relationship advice for women will be put forward by commonly asked questions.

Relationship Advice for Women

Q1: I hate the dating games that men play. I don’t know how to deal with momentary flings or someone who gets too clingy?
As a relationship advice and dating advice for women in the real world, I would like to say there is no one out there with lots of time to know what you want. We women love to hide in our shells and play the ‘guess my feelings’ game. Sadly, in the real world, you’ve got to speak up. Selective mutism (not speaking up when necessary) is not going to be entertained in a man’s world. Men by nature, are not mind readers as they themselves like to be cajoled and listened to. Hence, when a man is making his moves on you, make it very clear about what you want and what you are expecting.

This will save the time and effort for both of you and save the trouble of having strings attached or cutting the strings, whatever be the case.

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Q2: My husband never bothers to listen to what I have got to say. Neither does he take any decisions around the house. How am I to know what he wants?
From the olden times of your grand-mother to your mother and now to yours, the situation to men being indecisive about home affairs has remained the same. This stems from the fact, that the primal instinct of men is to be a protector, provider and possessor. And the role of a woman, is that of a ‘homemaker’ (sorry, if I am getting too cynical). It’s with these instincts that we act as a couple. Thus, when it comes to taking a decision regarding home affairs, he will always respect your decision, support it and will help you if it’s not wrong. That’s exactly what he will do, because that’s exactly what he wants. The other problem of not being a listener is rooted in the fact, that men procrastinate. Yes, they need to be pushed a little, but not nagged.

Q3: I am seeing this guy for a month and I’ve always stopped him from getting to the third base. I am scared things will get further than that. How do I tell him my dilemma?
Hmmm…we all go though this. Don’t we? The ‘right time’ may be right there in front of us, but certainty of it, is always uncertain. As relationship advice for girls, especially below 18, I suggest, keep this moment for later, when you are aware of what you are doing. Right now 18 may just seem a number to you, but trust me, you will ripe in your understanding with years that pass by. For girls above the age of 18, there is nothing wrong in feeling the way you are feeling. He may be coming on too strong for you, but stop him there, talk it out to him, share your fears and things will workout. If he really cares for you, he will understand you.

Q4: I work beyond my office hours. Sometimes I pull 15 hours of work a day. Post work, I get too tired to attend to my domestic affairs. My husband gets irritated with me and we get into regular fights. I am scared this will affect our bond and children too. Please help.
I completely understand your situation, dear reader. What women need to know about men, is, that they are just like kids. They want to be pampered, be (extra) cared for, heard, loved and attended too. Your long working hours is making your husband miss you, more than he should. Missing your partner, to a certain level is important, as too much familiarity begins to breed boredom. But 15 hours of work is draining you out, which is taking a toll on him and in turn reflecting on your kids. As an honest relationship advice for women, communicate your situation to your husband and let him know that at the moment, it’s not possible to put your profession in a backseat. At the same time, try and take a weekend off and go out on a weekend getaway with your family, then let me know how the situation improves.

Q5: My guy has failed to see me as a respectable individual in the past two years. Our relationship has taken an abusive turn. I love him a lot and I am still hoping for a change. Am I right?
Respect is the first premise of any relationship. If your guy has failed to learn such a simple thing in two years, then I’ve got to say, call it quits. Relationship advice to break up comes as a last resort, but if the other person is unwilling all the while, to make it work, then why waste time in hoping for a change all the while? I understand that you love him. But, the truth remains, love is just one factor of having a healthy relationship. With all due respect to him, end it on a good note and thank him for teaching you things like patience (for tolerating him), virtue of self reliance and ability to understand your emotions, and move out of the relationship. With so many positive changes in you, surely you will find somebody worth much more.

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Christian Online Dating Guide

November 13, 2012     No comments

A common question that Christian singles ask when referring to online dating is “shouldn’t I just wait for the Lord, instead of seeking a partner via online dating”.  Is it moral, acceptable, and what does the bible say on this? These are all good questions. I believe we should tell the Lord in our prayers that we would like to have someone in our lives and that we would hope that it is in his Will to provide it. You might feel that the Lords’ answer is for you to just wait and he shall provide. You might interpret this as doing nothing yourself, and if this is how you fell then that is fine. You might also feel however the Lord shall provide through your own actions in this case. You might say that part of the Lords provision comes from our own actions that give the Lord something to work on – something to use to guide us. I believe that its fine to use an online dating service as long as you do it respectfully and with a christian attitude.

If you feel that you are comfortable with pursuing online dating, as thousands of others are, then you might like to read further some of our advice and suggestions below

Online Dating
Online dating provides us with a good way to meet people and get an impression of what they are potentially like, but it can also prove to be a bit frustrating for some. You will need to take some time to create a good profile on the dating site if you are to give yourself a good chance of attracting a well-matched christian brother or sister. Invest some time to put some detail in your profile about the real you and what you like doing rather than just a vague single sentence that is not likely to invoke much interest from anyone. For example it would be much better to say:

“I enjoy hiking and walking since I am very much an outdoors person and like going to the mountains for a vacation as much as going to the beach. I like reading literature and also have a passion for gardening. I really like to know everyone at my church and the sense of joy in sharing in each others lives. What do you like about your church? I also like jogging to keep fit – do you like to keep fit?”

Rather than: “I am a Godly person who enjoys fine dining and walks on the beach” – that describes us all pretty much

Remember that is good to ask a few questions and its also important to be honest about yourself. Although you are hoping to attract some attention its also important that you don’t pretend to be something you are not.

Some general online dating tips:

Men

These women you are trying to get the attention of are your christian sisters so ensure you treat them that way – kindness, respect, patience all spring to mind
As stated in point 1, be patient with her and don’t try and push the relationship too quickly, be respectful and move at a pace she is comfortable with. Of course I know you might be thinking ‘how will I know what she is comfortable with?’. Well, if your intuition does not give you a good idea then maybe just politely say ‘please tell me if I am moving to fast’.  Christian women follow a standard for sexual purity so do not push the sex issue
If someone contacts you and you are not interested then you should have the courtesy to give them a polite response saying that although you don’t think you are well matched, you are grateful for their message. Of course you should also make sure you take the time to respond to women you are interested in too out of courtesy even if you are lucky enough to have lots of correspondence
If a woman tells you she is no longer interested in pursuing a relationship then you need to just walk away and try with someone else
Women
Let the guy take the initiative and move things forward, although this might be a bit frustrating if a guy you are interested in does not initiate, in the long term he is likely to be more respectful to you. Likewise, if a guy is pushing to early for a meeting or phone call then take notice of this – he should be willing to be patient and wait for you to be comfortable with the pace of things. Respond to him telling him its too early and if he is a nice guy he will wait. Be respectful however, these guys are your christian brothers so treat them that way
Use some discretion with your pictures – don’t use overly sexy or glamorous shots since this will attract the wrong guys and you want to give guys a realistic image of the real you to give any date a fair chance of success
Take the timer to respond to all guys whether you like them or not.  If someone contacts you and you are not interested then you should have the courtesy to give them a polite response saying that although you don’t think you are well matched, you are grateful for their message
Do not reveal personal information until you are ready to trust someone. Most dating sites allow you to use a nickname instead of revealing your real name and its a good tip to use a different email address than your main one for initial correspondence – remember not to use your real name in this email

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The Rules of Dating Christians

November 09, 2012     No comments

If you find yourself dating a Christian and you want the relationship to last, being in different religions can highly affect a relationship especially if one or the other’s life greatly relies on his or her religious beliefs and is different from yours. However, even within Christians, the outlook and approach to dating varies although it is pertinent that you understand and accept that not only do their rules of dating rely on their religious beliefs. Moreover, for a relationship to work out, you have to accept whatever a Christians beliefs are because a majority of their decisions in life are highly influenced and based on their Christianity.

 

Certain Restrictions Apply

 

As aforementioned, Christians may share a religion, but they don’t always share the same level of acceptance to the world activities such as sex before marriage and living in together. Believe it or not, sex before marriage and living in together is still frowned upon by some Christians. If you don’t share that same belief and acceptance of the Christian preaching but still want to hold on to your relationship, giving yourself a chance to understand their beliefs may give you more insights to allow you to better understand your partner and where you’re relationship is heading to.

 

Dating Non-Christians

 

If you’re unaware of the fact that Christians are taught at a very early age to not date a non-believer, then be cautious on going about and dating a Christian. Especially, if she is unaccepting to the fact of dating you because you don’t share the same religious beliefs.

 

Christians and the rule of responsible dating

 

Sharing the same interests such as sharing the love for sports and food is different from sharing the same beliefs. Dating a Christian is not just about dating for the sake of having to avoid explaining to your friends or colleagues why you’re not in a relationship because to Christians, dating is about finding if that person they are with is the one they’ll end up with in the long run. Dating is not to be taken lightly as they’ve been taught that’s why they prefer younger Christians to date much later until they are responsible enough to handle a relationship and the relationships that come along with it.

 

Having a Good Time

 

You may be a party animal 24/7 and would like to take your date out to the places you frequent to show her the real you. Hold your proverbial horses because some Christians are still keen on partying like there’s no tomorrow especially at booze parties and the likes. Also, throwing everything in about yourself, especially in the early stage of a relationship is a big no-no. Christian dating can be slightly different. For example, instead of having a night out with her in racy nightclubs, prefer to do something nice and different yet still fun such as karaoke or bowling and dinner where you can have actual conversations that will open opportunities for both of you to better know each other because that’s the main reason you’re dating.

 

The Family Plays a Great Deal in a Christians Life

 

Especially parents are regarded as an important aspect in a Christians life so don’t be taken aback if your special someone wants to you to meet their parents or family earlier than you expect. Some Christian parents are still not very open to their children dating someone from a different religion. Be patient if you want your relationship to last and be accepted by the family.

 

The important factor to remember in dating a Christian is that religion comes before anything else in their life. So, it follows that their decisions, actions and beliefs are based on Christianity.

 

 

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